People pleasers have a heck of a time saying no. My husband and I moved into our motorhome and don't care if we ever own a house again. We are free wheeling it, volunteering for Christian projects and enjoying retired life. We spent winters in Florida at a Thousand Trails near the Villages. It's a great place for retirees. You won't run out of things to do. You know you are in the Villages when the Walmart parking lot is full of golf carts. 🤣 I'll bet your friend is enjoying it.