I didn't mention that I married an alcoholic—the story of God saving our marriage and my husband's life gave me a beautiful memoir. Sadly, when I used the tools I learned in Al-anon, I stopped enabling my husband, but I continued to enable my son. We're all a work in progress. My husband finally turned to God, and that's what brought about the change in him. I will pray that your father wakes up, too. I never knew my father, but I know what living with an addicted person who you love is like. ❤️ I hope it isn't too forward to share the link to my book here. http://amzn.to/1HQqPze